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| Kelihatan seperti keluarga biasa yang bahagia dengan ibu, ayah dan dua anak lelaki kecil - cuma sebenarnya si bapa telah bertukar jantina daripada perempuan menjadi jantan, dan si ibu bertukar jantina daripada lelaki kepada betina!!! Na'uzubillah!!! |
Dalam Surah Al-Hujurat 49:13, Allah swt berfirman, 'Hai manusia, sesungguhnya Kami mencipta kamu dari seorang lelaki dan seorang perempuan dan kami jadikan kamu berbangsa-bangsa dan bersuku-suku supaya kamu saling kenal-mengenali'.
Sabda Rasulullah saw maksudnya, 'Daripada
Ibn Anas r.a berkata Rasulullah saw melaknat mereka yang menyerupai
wanita daripada kalangan lelaki dan mereka yang menyerupai lelaki
daripada kalangan wanita (HR Bukhari)'.
Lelaki sukakan wanita itu fitrah.
Wanita sayangkan lelaki itu lumrah.
Wanita bernafsukan wanita itu parah.
Lelaki berahikan lelaki itu punah.
Lelaki jadi wanita itu mak nyah;
Wanita jadi lelaki itu nanah;
Tetapi wanita tukar jadi jantan,
dan lelaki tukar jadi betina,
lalu bernikah;
itu songsang 69 bah!
https://www.blogger.com/blogger.g?blogID=8302693494744104737#editor/target=post;postID=2240113457493882271
Itulah kisah keluarga diatas daripada Kentucky, Amerika Syarikat..
Si bapa bernama Nick Bowser (27) asalnya seorang perempuan bernama Nicole. Si ibu pula, Bianca (32) asalnya seorang lelaki bernama Jason.
Mereka bertemu dan jatuh cinta. Sebelum kedua-duanya menukar identiti jantina, Jason telah mengadakan hubungan kelamin sehingga Nicole mengandung dan melahirkan kedua-dua anak lelaki bernama Kay & Pax.
Setelah kelahiran anak-anak itu, Bianca menukar jantina menjadi jantan bernama Jason lalu bertukar identiti menjadi ayah. Manakala Jason menukar jantina menjadi betina bernama Bianca lalu bertukar identiti menjadi ibu.
Hukum Allah dilanggar, hadis Rasulullah dicemar, fitrah kemanusiaan dibubar. Inilah akibatnya apabila budaya LGBT - Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual & Transgender dibenarkan dan dihalalkan.
Dan inilah yang diperjuangkan oleh penyokong dan pendokong LGBT di Malaysia termasuk Bar Council yang menjadi penyokong kuat pakatan pembangkang DAP-PKR-PAS.
Persoalannya, adakah pakatan DAP-PKR-PAS menyokong dasar LGBT ini? Adakah mereka akan membenarkan dan menghalalkan budaya songsang ini dalam negara Malaysia tercinta ini?
Rakyat Malaysia berhak tahu pendirian DAP-PKR-PAS sebelum PRU-14!
Saya cabar Kitsiang, Anwar dan Hadi Awang menyatakan pendirian mereka sekarang!
Wallahua'lam dan Wassalam.
Adios amigos, grasias senor!
Zulkifli Bin Noordin
Isnin
29 Syawal 1435
25 Ogos 2014
https://www.yahoo.com/health/transgender-parents-speak-out-about-what-makes-a-family-94649793492.html?soc_src=mags
Transgender Parents Speak Out About What Makes a Family
The transgender parents of two
young children living in Kentucky are raising consciousness about
family, honesty, and love this week after some splashy media coverage in the British tabloids stemming from an appearance
on “The Ricki Lake Show” in 2013. “It’s good, because our goal was to
have our story appear here in the States,” mom Bianca Bowser told Yahoo
Health. “Our main point is to express our similarities [to everyone
else] and to advocate for the transgender community.”
Bianca,
32, was born a boy named Jason, while her husband, Nick Bowser, 27, was
born a girl named Nicole. They met and fell in love in 2009, before
Nick’s gender transition, in Atlanta. (A person's sexual orientation is
distinct from a person's gender identity or expression.) Eventually,
they decided to start a family, and Nick, still physically female
(though he would eventually undergo breast-removal surgery), decided to
carry Bianca’s babies — something he described to the Mirror as being “an absolutely horrible experience for me” because he already identifed as male.
“We have the parts so we will use
them,” Bianca told the Mirror. “If we could change them we would, and
they would be the other way around,” she said, referring to
sex-reassignment surgeries that they both hope to undergo someday, “but
we cannot afford it and the children come first.”
Bianca and Nick. Photo courtesy of the Bowser family.
Now that their boys, Kai and Pax,
are 3 and 1 respectively, the couple is beginning to grapple with how
to explain that Mom was technically Dad and Dad was technically Mom.
But, Bianca told Yahoo Health, “Our guts have always led us in the right
direction.” She added that there hasn’t been much in the way of
guidance out there that’s specific to their situation, as even the
stories that do involve transgender parents — like that of activist and
author Jenny Boylan, who described transitioning from dad to mom in her
2013 memoir, “Stuck in the Middle With You” — have involved older children who were cognizant of the parent’s gender transition from the get-go.
Still, Bianca said, they will
explain the situation sooner rather than later, and they’re confident
that their kids will be OK upon learning the truth. “If they don’t know
anything different, and it isn’t presented as something negative, then
there’s no downside,” she said.
That’s the right idea, according to parenting expert, author, and clinical psychologist Laura Markham,
who told Yahoo Health that it’s important to tell children the truth
about their origins from a very early age. “Otherwise, it’s going to
feel like it’s a betrayal to them,” she said. “Whether the child is
adopted or from a donor egg or any variation of normal, what’s important
is to tell them, ‘You were so wanted and so loved, and this is just the
way it was in our family, no big deal.’”
For help with any tale of
conception, Markham suggests that parents create a rudimentary photo
book, telling the child’s story. And in the particular case of Bianca
and Nick, she said they might consider talking about themselves as
children — how each grew up feeling like they were in the wrong body,
and how they eventually found each other and fell in love and started
their family. “It’s important to remember that, as human beings, we make
sense of our lives through stories,” Markham said.
Gender aside, the story of the
Bowser family is fairly typical. Both parents struggle to balance
child-rearing with work — Nick is a bar manager and Bianca is a popular
Louisville drag performer known as Bianca Nicole — and with social time,
much of it with childless friends who also work in nightlife. “It’s
hard for them to understand how we work late, sleep for a few hours,
then get up early and take care of our kids,” Bianca said. “But
everything in our nightlife world has been very, very positive, and
we’ve sometimes been called role models within our community.” The boys’
grandparents on both sides are also very involved with their lives,
although, Bianca admitted,
“That took time.”
The discussion of transgender
lives seemed to reach a crescendo this past year, much of it due to the
media presence of outspoken writers and activists including Boylan, Laverne Cox, Janet Mock, and Carmen Carrera. Use of the word “tranny” on “RuPaul’s Drag Race,” as well as a controversial Katie Couric interview in which the host asked Cox and Carrera about their genitalia, even led to a public discourse about how to discuss the topic
correctly. The Bowsers are extremely open with intimate details of
their lives, though, and have shared images of themselves before the
transition, explaining that such an open approach works for them.
“I don’t criticize how anyone
demonstrates who they are as transgender individuals,” Bianca explained.
“For me personally, I’m not going to deny who I have been before. I
don’t look at it as something to be ashamed of, because without that
past, I wouldn’t be who I am today.”
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